A second less a day

I've decided that on my 20th birthday I will run 1km in under 15 minutes. That means I have to gain a second on my time everyday. Watch me run!I wrote that a year ago, and I have competed that goal!I mostly post and reblog things about mental health, figure skating and body image. As well as pretty things! And AFL! Blues all the way ;) I swear I have interests outside of sport

the-clockwork-alex:

anneapocalypse:

sourcedumal:

cognitivedissonance:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

ohhmelancholy:

misunderst00ds0ul:

joybeeeez:

guys never realize that. 

Why play games though? Just come out and say no, don’t seem to hard.

cause the word “no” is not in ya’ll vocabulary.

Who is this ya’ll you speak of?

Honestly flat out saying no can be really scary. A lot of guys will be cool and leave you alone, but there are enough that won’t that I don’t always feel comfortable saying no. You don’t always know how a guy will react. I’ve had enough bad experiences that I always have an excuse or friend because I’m not willing to take that chance. Sometimes “playing games” is keeping myself safe.

That’s absolutely terrible, I know from personal experience I like women to be straight up with me. At the same time I know guys who are so childish and petty.

Childish guys are the easier ones. I’d rather deal with a childish guy that talks shit than a guy that gets violent. Either sucks but its the lesser of two evils

whenwomenrefuse
exists for a reason.


Dudes out here are legit KILLING AND MAIMING WOMEN FOR SAYING NO OUTRIGHT and you wondering why we have to ‘play these games?’
I have been verbally harassed and FOLLOWED FOR SIX CITY BLOCKS for not giving a man my number. I thank GOD I wasn’t killed that day.

"I like women to be straight with me."
Dude, when men stop going on shooting sprees and citing rejection from women as their reason then we can talk about “being straight with you”. Until then, fuck off with this line of thinking entirely because we are trying to STAY ALIVE.

This guy truly seems like he didn’t know, and that’s fine.  Shame on you guys being so hateful towards this particular person.  He really didn’t know.  Yes, the fear’s there for all of us girls, but not all guys understand and there’s no need to be rude towards him for that.

Or it means she’s had enough to drink, I know her well enough to know she’s half an hour from passing out. And just because you, random stranger, thinks she’ll enjoy it means I’m obviously wrong. So that’s why I cockblock you

the-clockwork-alex:

anneapocalypse:

sourcedumal:

cognitivedissonance:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

ohhmelancholy:

misunderst00ds0ul:

joybeeeez:

guys never realize that. 

Why play games though? Just come out and say no, don’t seem to hard.

cause the word “no” is not in ya’ll vocabulary.

Who is this ya’ll you speak of?

Honestly flat out saying no can be really scary. A lot of guys will be cool and leave you alone, but there are enough that won’t that I don’t always feel comfortable saying no. You don’t always know how a guy will react. I’ve had enough bad experiences that I always have an excuse or friend because I’m not willing to take that chance. Sometimes “playing games” is keeping myself safe.

That’s absolutely terrible, I know from personal experience I like women to be straight up with me. At the same time I know guys who are so childish and petty.

Childish guys are the easier ones. I’d rather deal with a childish guy that talks shit than a guy that gets violent. Either sucks but its the lesser of two evils

whenwomenrefuse
exists for a reason.

Dudes out here are legit KILLING AND MAIMING WOMEN FOR SAYING NO OUTRIGHT and you wondering why we have to ‘play these games?’

I have been verbally harassed and FOLLOWED FOR SIX CITY BLOCKS for not giving a man my number. I thank GOD I wasn’t killed that day.

"I like women to be straight with me."

Dude, when men stop going on shooting sprees and citing rejection from women as their reason then we can talk about “being straight with you”. Until then, fuck off with this line of thinking entirely because we are trying to STAY ALIVE.

This guy truly seems like he didn’t know, and that’s fine.  Shame on you guys being so hateful towards this particular person.  He really didn’t know.  Yes, the fear’s there for all of us girls, but not all guys understand and there’s no need to be rude towards him for that.

Or it means she’s had enough to drink, I know her well enough to know she’s half an hour from passing out. And just because you, random stranger, thinks she’ll enjoy it means I’m obviously wrong. So that’s why I cockblock you

the-clockwork-alex:

anneapocalypse:

sourcedumal:

cognitivedissonance:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

ohhmelancholy:

misunderst00ds0ul:

joybeeeez:

guys never realize that. 

Why play games though? Just come out and say no, don’t seem to hard.

cause the word “no” is not in ya’ll vocabulary.

Who is this ya’ll you speak of?

Honestly flat out saying no can be really scary. A lot of guys will be cool and leave you alone, but there are enough that won’t that I don’t always feel comfortable saying no. You don’t always know how a guy will react. I’ve had enough bad experiences that I always have an excuse or friend because I’m not willing to take that chance. Sometimes “playing games” is keeping myself safe.

That’s absolutely terrible, I know from personal experience I like women to be straight up with me. At the same time I know guys who are so childish and petty.

Childish guys are the easier ones. I’d rather deal with a childish guy that talks shit than a guy that gets violent. Either sucks but its the lesser of two evils

whenwomenrefuse
exists for a reason.


Dudes out here are legit KILLING AND MAIMING WOMEN FOR SAYING NO OUTRIGHT and you wondering why we have to ‘play these games?’
I have been verbally harassed and FOLLOWED FOR SIX CITY BLOCKS for not giving a man my number. I thank GOD I wasn’t killed that day.

"I like women to be straight with me."
Dude, when men stop going on shooting sprees and citing rejection from women as their reason then we can talk about “being straight with you”. Until then, fuck off with this line of thinking entirely because we are trying to STAY ALIVE.

This guy truly seems like he didn’t know, and that’s fine.  Shame on you guys being so hateful towards this particular person.  He really didn’t know.  Yes, the fear’s there for all of us girls, but not all guys understand and there’s no need to be rude towards him for that.

the-clockwork-alex:

anneapocalypse:

sourcedumal:

cognitivedissonance:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

sailtowardthehorizon:

misunderst00ds0ul:

ohhmelancholy:

misunderst00ds0ul:

joybeeeez:

guys never realize that. 

Why play games though? Just come out and say no, don’t seem to hard.

cause the word “no” is not in ya’ll vocabulary.

Who is this ya’ll you speak of?

Honestly flat out saying no can be really scary. A lot of guys will be cool and leave you alone, but there are enough that won’t that I don’t always feel comfortable saying no. You don’t always know how a guy will react. I’ve had enough bad experiences that I always have an excuse or friend because I’m not willing to take that chance. Sometimes “playing games” is keeping myself safe.

That’s absolutely terrible, I know from personal experience I like women to be straight up with me. At the same time I know guys who are so childish and petty.

Childish guys are the easier ones. I’d rather deal with a childish guy that talks shit than a guy that gets violent. Either sucks but its the lesser of two evils

whenwomenrefuse
exists for a reason.

Dudes out here are legit KILLING AND MAIMING WOMEN FOR SAYING NO OUTRIGHT and you wondering why we have to ‘play these games?’

I have been verbally harassed and FOLLOWED FOR SIX CITY BLOCKS for not giving a man my number. I thank GOD I wasn’t killed that day.

"I like women to be straight with me."

Dude, when men stop going on shooting sprees and citing rejection from women as their reason then we can talk about “being straight with you”. Until then, fuck off with this line of thinking entirely because we are trying to STAY ALIVE.

This guy truly seems like he didn’t know, and that’s fine.  Shame on you guys being so hateful towards this particular person.  He really didn’t know.  Yes, the fear’s there for all of us girls, but not all guys understand and there’s no need to be rude towards him for that.

I seriously think I stress out more on rental applications than dating. Dating Im like, you didn’t like me, that’s cool that’s how love works and shit
But houses
Why do houses not like me